Introducing Sex toys specifically Realistic Vibrators into your sexual relationship can be tricky. There are a lot of myths around vibrators when it comes to using them as a couple or even more multiple partners. You may come across people who are miss informed about the role they play within sex.

The biggest myth is that Vibrators especially Realistic Vibrators are to replace having a sexual partner who owns a penis. Well this is completely untrue vibrators are there to enhance the experience and offer a unique experience that a penis often could not provide, phalluses don’t vibrate whereas a vibrator does this provides heightened stimulation for the woman/vagina owner. That does not mean the vibrator replaces a penis because they offer two different types of stimulation I have owned various realistic dildo/vibrators over the years and not even my most realistic dual density ones feel like penetrative sex.

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Okay I didn’t know this was a post I was going to write but I need to vent I need to speak out because I have spent years suffering in silence. I have a shit tonne of health conditions, impingement and fluid on my knees underactive thyroid and most recently Endometriosis. I had my children very young, because of this I never got the excitement other people got, family members didn’t want to know but I had to just shrug my shoulders. Now because of this all I have ever known is to be a mom I left school and went straight into mommy mode. I adore my kids and that’s the reason I knew I wanted more! I do everything for them I haven’t even thought about myself in nearly 7 years nights out are a no go, I barely even get to go to the toilet in piece. That’s how I like things I love being a mom and I’m incredibly blessed to even get that chance.

I am still very young much younger than the typical mother and I have recently been confirmed to have endometriosis. This effects fertility (My underactive thyroid also effects fertility which is why we agreed to have our second as soon as we could) mainly the excruciating pelvic pain is nothing compared to the pain I have had to cope with mentally. Rewind 2 years ago: I got married I was in great health and wanted so much to have another baby. Mr wasn’t ready so I wasn’t going to be pressurising him into having a child he didn’t want. I waited and waited and last year we finally agreed to have another child, once I got better. After 3 operations in 12 months I now know I won’t ever get better I’ll only ever get worse(I’m having to race against my endo so that I am still fertile the clock is ticking and I don’t even know if it’s stopped for good). So we agreed to try for a baby(If by some miracle I can have one) We were supposed to start after my op by Mr wanted to wait until my post op appointment for the all clear, That’s not until the end of May/June so that was the final decision.

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